Tuesday, June 15, 2010

RULES REJUVENATED

My friends often criticize me of being toooo logical .They say i deal with thoughts as if it were some mathematical equations.My way of comprehension seems very complex and rigid to them.As far as their story goes- many of them depend on itheir instincts and many on the feelings in their hearts which - i don't say that i find wrong, but very fragile. I mean,how can our feelings be everlasting- today you feel something, maybe tomorrow you feel something else.So sorry guys ,i can't give up my static logic for something ephemeral.
Recently i met an accident- the incident of which i would like to forget but the teachings i would always like to stay close to me like flames on fire.The incident shook my faith to an extent that i had never envisaged.In a squalling emergency, i had to hastily revise and update my set of mathematical living equations of rules some of which i have shared with you.It was regarding a friend.Let me state that I am writing this for people who i pray don't end up like me.So if you find even a speck worth to give a thought, please let me know.
RULE NO 1
Most people play with their heart till they come to know that actually their heart was playing with them.This results in complicacies,sorrow and wastage of tons of time and energy.In the end we come to know that we were actually stuck in a whirlpool created by our ownselves- what a pity.
Most people play what i call social games for the sake of having fun and frolic.It seems cool and smart in the beginning giving us a feeling of self extolment.However,with time the game starts to ask for your resources which include Italic,patience,mental space,money ,mental poise.Hence you can't help pitying yourself by saying- "MAINE YE KYON KIYA??? "and also lets not forget the pain other person might be going through.A great philosopher once said that other person is your own soul with a different body.
Therefore the conclusion is -" games take us no where".This is not some text book philosophy- but a materialized truth .
Please note that i am not saying "do not to play politics" but- play it for a cause and let the cause be righteousness and not fun n frolic.Lets keep it simple guyz.
And if you still want to play over things, OK,then i have one suggestion for you.Do enjoy your mind games but beware of not losing your focus and not changing your objectives while in course.Let me explain with an example:When two people start playing mind games so as to derive joy under the camouflaghe of being cool and friendly,they might feel overwhelmed at start.But afterwards things didn't remain same -remember we're humans and we do get attached.... The relation ends when the game ends.
In the end i would just like to say that i or any person are not bad guys.Indeed,no person in this world is completely good or bad.Our deeds vary with time and contexts. We all commit mistakes but the good guys are those who know that they're doing wrong when they do so and the bad guys justify it.
How happy was i when i used to be myself ,no pretending ,no feigning and indeed the world was beautiful....


1 comment:

  1. "...many of them depend on itheir instincts and many on the feelings in their hearts which - i don't say that i find wrong, but very fragile,"
    it ani't their 'hearts' but their 'minds' that are fragile.

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